Becoming Wiser

Why on Earth only after the great commotion feeling and emotions become more fresh and updated? Is it a way out of routine not to be stuck in or else? When you love a person everything is settled down and calm, each day brings you stability and you don't think of feelings as you did on the first dates when you lacked for breathing only seeing a person of your admiration. It's forgotten too soon. But when you get some controversial news about your common future life and happiness you feel depressed, then sad and misguided. Only after that comes realisation that your feelings need to be updated. It's in your own hands, don't break it forever.